The world cannot tell you who you are, only you can know who you are, be the kind of person you wish others would be. Maybe there is a reason life seems so difficult, Pressure turns coal into diamonds. Maybe there is a reason for the storms, without the rain there is no rainbow. Struggling is inevitable, but suffering is optional. Everything happens exactly how it is supposed to, exactly when it is supposed to. So stop worrying, stop swimming upstream, just ride the flow of the stream we call life. You will find it much more satisfying.